Talk on Topic
Some individuals with autism want to make connections with other people, but need to learn how to carry on appropriate conversations. Because the art of conversation is complex, we need to pinpoint what specific skills are missing. One key conversation element some individuals with autism lack is that of talking about the topic at hand.
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For example, one of my pre-teen students with autism tended to talk about one topic rather obsessively rather than following the conversation of other youngsters or family members. Teachers, parents, and therapists worked together to teach this young lady to “talk on topic.”
1. Since the first step in participating in conversation is that of listening. she was taught to keep her mouth quiet and listen to other people. This youngster tended to just begin talking without any regard for the current topic of conversation.
2. Secondly, the pre-teen was taught to follow the conversation by listening carefully to what others were saying and purposefully pinpoint the topic being discussed.
3. Through social stories and role-playing, the youngster was taught to make one brief comment about that particular topic when a brief pause occurred in the informal conversation.
4. The young lady was also taught to make neutral comments if she didn’t have anything specific to say. Some of her choices of neutral comments were, “Hmmm, that is interesting” and “Sounds like fun.”
5. She was also taught to reflect specifically on what a friend had just said. For example, she might say, “Sounds like the test was really hard” or “I hope you find the bracelet that fell off at recess.”
TIP FOR THE DAY: Conversing with other people is challenging at best, and autism just adds another layer of complexity. But, with patient guidance and practice, everyone can learn to participate in casual conversation.
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NOTE TO READERS AND LISTENERS: I am Cathy Knoll, a board certified music therapist and long-time friend of many folks with autism. At FAQautism.com we are committed to providing free, practical, everyday tips for making life better for people with autism. Feel free to send me a confidential email at talk@FAQautism.com with your thoughts or challenging situations or innovative solution. And don’t forget to check out our website for a wealth of ideas and a glimpse into the world of autism. http://FAQautism.com
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