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We are looking at some basic principles to consider when dealing with explosive behavior demonstrated by some individuals with autism. As we mentioned in part 1 of this series, a variety of factors can lead to frustration, agitation, and explosive behavior. We are looking at just four factors to consider as we attempt to control that chaos.

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Take a look at part 1 of this series to explore some of the triggers of explosive meltdowns as well as some general suggestions for responding to the discontent. In that podcast, we introduced the principle of changing any contributing factors that can be changed. Some things can be changed, and other factors are out of our control, but we should not just resign ourselves to outbursts and tantrums. Let us continue this discussion by looking at two other basic principles to consider when dealing with explosive behavior and disruptive outbursts.

3. We need to monitor our responses carefully. Sometimes we can alleviate the intensity or frequency of outburst by changing our response to the problem. For example, are we making the situation worse by responding harshly and impatiently, expecting our friend with autism to “straighten up and fly right” immediately?

4. In some cases, we cannot change factors that cause agitation, frustration, and meltdowns. Often, circumstances require us to help our friends learn to accept and cope with those anxiety-producing factors that cannot be changed. For example, a youngster who finds it difficult to deal with all the sensory input of sights and sounds involved when riding in a car can watch their favorite movie on a hand-held DVD player with earphones. Or our friend who has an extreme aversion to shoes can learn to wear slides or clogs one size too large when walking outside, then, if allowable, take shoes off when inside.

TIP FOR THE DAY: Again, this topic is much too involved to cover in two brief podcasts. But, the basic principle to remember is this: under most circumstances, we can, indeed, take some systematic steps proven effective in bringing peace where chaos reigns in the lives of individuals with autism and those around them.

NOTE TO READERS AND LISTENERS: I am Cathy Knoll, a board certified music therapist and long-time friend of many folks with autism. At FAQautism.com we are committed to providing free, practical, everyday tips for making life better for people with autism. Feel free to send me a confidential email at talk@FAQautism.com with your thoughts or challenging situations or innovative solution. And don’t forget to check out our website for a wealth of ideas and a glimpse into the world of autism. http://FAQautism.com

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