Fiddle Sticks
Nearly all of my friends with autism – literally dozens and dozens of kids, teens, adults, and older adults – fiddle with things. They may twirl, tap, flap, flip, open and close, or rearrange objects constantly, sometimes annoying people around them.
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Repetitive actions and rituals are inherent in autism. We must, of course, do what we can to minimize these habits if they are particularly disruptive or potentially hurtful. But, in most cases, attempting to completely extinguish fiddling behaviors in people with autism is like attempting to force a bird to stop singing.
One strategy that has worked well for me over the years is to help my fidgety friends find something they can keep in their pocket and fiddle with quietly so they do not disturb others.
One of the most popular items is what I call Fiddle Sticks – four or five popcicle sticks. I encourage teachers, family members, job coaches, and others to take their friend with autism to the craft section of store and let them choose between traditional wood-colored sticks, brightly colored popcicle sticks, and those that have texture with cut out patterns. Most folks purchase a combination of all three.
Put four or five sticks in a snack-sized ziplock bag, and stick them in a pocket or backpack. Keep extra fiddle sticks in the car and in Mom’s purse so they are always handy. I like to write words and phrases on the sticks or drawn faces at the tops of the sticks.
TIP FOR THE DAY: Popcicle sticks are an inexpensive, unobtrusive way to keep fidgety folks occupied and content. Most importantly for obsessive individuals with autism, fiddle sticks can be replaced if lost or broken.
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