Hair Part 2
In Part 1 of the discussion about challenging hair issues related to autism, we looked at the possible causes of negative reactions to washing, styling, or cutting hair. Once we realize that some of the issues related to hair care are rooted to some extent in the very nature of autism, we can begin to develop strategies for helping our friends cope with the problems.
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What can we do to make hair care more tolerable? Every individual is different, so there is not a single, fool-proof strategy for tackling hair issues. But, take a look at the tips for some ideas that may work in your situation.
HAIR CUTS. For guys who hit the ceiling every time they hear hair clippers, stop the torture by using scissors to trim hair. Consider a home salon for individuals with autism who are particularly averse to the noises, smells, and hub-bub in a salon or barber shop. Find a friend or family member who can trim hair, give your youngster a tub of popcorn, then sneak in a haircut. My friend, Rina, says she puts a vinyl tablecloth on the floor in front of the television then cuts her son’s hair while he watches his favorite show.
HAIR STYLING. Unless your friend with autism is exceptionally tolerant of hairdryers, gels, sprays, combs, rollers, curling irons, and other styling paraphernalia, stick an easy-care, wash-and-wear hairstyle. If a person is distracted or agitated by bangs or a ponytail or a burr hair cut, then don’t impose those styles on them.
WASHING HAIR. Rather than upsetting the apple cart by washing hair at random times during the week, consider making hair washing a regular part of the shower or bath routine. Take your friend with autism shopping, letting them pick out their own shampoo, conditioner, comb, washcloth, soap, and towel. Then teach them to use their own kit to clean “top to bottom” when taking a shower or bath. No need to even bring up the dreaded words, “It is time to wash your hair.” Instead, the usual bath routine includes cleaning from your head to your toes.
TIP FOR THE DAY. Don’t forget the impact of parent attitude and stress on issues such as hair care. You can help ward off major meltdowns by relaxing and by avoiding obsession with the placement of every hair on an individual’s head. Granted, you want to help your friend with autism be as clean and attractive as possible, but don’t sacrifice peace and contentment by striving for a perfect hair day. We welcome other ideas from parents and other caregivers about cutting down on agitation and frustration from all sides when hair care issues are involved.
NOTE TO READERS AND LISTENERS: I am Cathy Knoll, a board certified music therapist and long-time friend of many folks with autism. At FAQautism.com we are committed to providing free, practical, everyday tips for making life better for people with autism. Feel free to send me a confidential email at talk@FAQautism.com with your thoughts or challenging situations or innovative solution. And don’t forget to check out our website for a wealth of ideas and a glimpse into the world of autism. http://FAQautism.com
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