22 July 2008

Reality or Fantasy

Many of my friends with autism have some trouble sorting fact from fiction. Because of this tendency toward literal interpretation, we might consider purposefully gathering reality-based books and shows to balance the fantasy media that often floods our lives.
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I find individuals of all ages on the spectrum of autism are often intrigued by books, magazines, and videos that focus on actual events, places, and things. There is a growing selection of books, magazines, shows, and websites about real topics – animals, transportation, places, science, history, inventions, cultures, food, and other interesting themes. Many use actual photographs or realistic illustrations that help distinguish them from cartoons or imaginary stories.

Another aspect of reality-based interaction arises with relatives who live far away. Sometimes it is difficult for an individual with autism to identify specifically with a person when they don’t often spend time with them. Some families use photographs and video to help a person with autism connect with far-flung relatives when talking on the phone or reading a card or letter. So for example, they show the child a picture of their grandparents sitting with the child, and say, “This is a letter from Grandmama and Papa.” Others might tape a 3-minute video of grandparents talking directly to the child and show that to the child before reading letters from Grandmama and Papa. A new possibility for personal connection is being developed – video based e-mail. Check it out on http://Seesmic.com.

So, in regards to the distinction between fact and fiction, we just need to keep in mind that many of our friends with autism interpret most of what they see and hear literally. We must not assume they can discern the difference between reality and fantasy. And we can purposefully connect them to materials that are, indeed, based on actual people, events, things, and places so they have a frame of reference in the future. We hope you will share your favorites. Just click on the comments button or send an e-mail to talk@FAQautism.com

NOTE TO LISTENERS AND READERS: I am Cathy Knoll, a board certified music therapist and long-time friend of many folks with autism. At FAQautism.com we are committed to providing free, practical, everyday tips for making life better for people with autism. You can click on a button to send me an email with your thoughts or challenging situations or innovative solutions. Check out our website for a wealth of ideas and a glimpse into the world of autism. www.FAQautism.com

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