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Many parents comment on the stress of constant care-giving necessary for their youngsters with autism. Especially when a person needs on-going, hands-on assistance with self-care or behavior management or safety, exhaustion can set in quickly. Concerns also surface about balancing time and attention with other kids in the family.

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Some parents have implemented successful “buddy systems” to help decrease the stress of 24/7 forever parenting.

Live Buddy. Hire a college student or other person who can hang out with your youngster for a few hours each day so you can take a break and devote that time to your other kids. In one family, their son’s buddy spends time with him for a few hours every evening after supper or every afternoon after school so the parents can have a break and spend time with other kids for homework and other school activities. If your budget is limited, contact the education or counseling departments of a nearby university. Their students are often searching for opportunities to gain clinical experience, so they may volunteer to spend time with your child on a regular basis.

Virtual Buddy. Create two or three places in the house where your son can “hang out” with minimal supervision. This safe haven can be a room that is close to the family living space or a fenced place in the backyard with a swing or trampoline. Several families have found it works well to give their youngster with autism their own rocking easy chair in the family room with an iPod, tear-proof books, or other leisure time activities. Every individual with autism has different needs and interests, but keep an eye out for interesting toys or gadgets, squishy balls, nesting toys, lighted objects, music, video games and other visually interesting activities. Consider getting a trampoline, a swing, a swinging hammock, a rocking recliner, or anything that he can enjoy with minimal supervision.

We welcome your input. Share challenges and ideas based on your experiences or intuition. Just click on the comments button or send an e-mail to talk@FAQautism.com.

NOTE TO READERS AND LISTENERS: I am Cathy Knoll, a board certified music therapist and long-time friend of many folks with autism. At FAQautism.com we are committed to providing free, practical, everyday tips for making life better for people with autism. Feel free to send me an email with your thoughts or challenging situations or innovative solution. Send email to talk@FAQautism.com And don’t forget to check out our website for a wealth of ideas and a glimpse into the world of autism. http://FAQautism.com

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