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Today we are discussing the issue of respect. It would probably be a good idea for all of us to take a close look at our interactions with our friends with autism and other disabilities so we can be certain we are treating them with respect and allowing them to maintain their dignity. Most of us do not intend to be disrespectful, but we all need occasional reminders to make certain we maintain the dignity of all individuals.
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SPECIFIC STRATEGIES. We can probably all make some improvements in three areas related to respect: privacy, time, and self-control. The steps are appropriate even if the individual with autism does not seem to care about how others treat them or if they do not seem to be aware of interactions with other people.
The first target area is PRIVACY: We can avoid talking about people with autism or other disabilities as if they were not present. We do not need to share their problems or challenging situations in public. We can maintain confidentiality and preserve privacy by consulting with other caregivers, family members, and professionals discreetly.
Next, the second target area is TIME: We show respect and demonstrate the importance of individuals by taking time every single day to devote our full attention to our friends with autism. We can build and nurture a close personal relationship by slowing down and exploring things that are interesting to them. We can demonstrate our respect for their viewpoint by giving the person with autism the time and the means to express their opinions and choices.
Finally, the third target area related to demonstrating respect is SELF-CONTROL: It is so much easier for us to manage the details of the daily lives of individuals with autism rather than waiting patiently for them to do so. But everyone likes to have SOME control over their daily routine. Rather than taking care of every detail of your friend’s life, let them be in control of something. Depending on their level of functioning, they might be able to choose their clothing for the day, meals and snacks, free-time activities, family events, music, books, or movies. Help people gain (or regain) some measure of control over their lives by giving them choices when possible.
NOTE TO LISTENERS AND READERS: I am Cathy Knoll, a board certified music therapist and long-time friend of many folks with autism. At FAQautism.com we are committed to providing free, practical, everyday tips for making life better for people with autism. You can click on a button to send me an email with your thoughts or challenging situations or innovative solutions. Check out our website for a wealth of ideas and a glimpse into the world of autism. www.FAQautism.com
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